From the Rabbi’s Desk

What a wonderful Yom Kippur we had – beautiful singing, Pamela and Yariv playing extraordinary music to open Kol Nidre, Anabel chanting the Kol Nidre for over 90 people in the room, and more on Zoom. So much gratitude for all who came and participated.

I have put a special request in for some sunny days as of Sunday so that we can put up our Sukkah! I may get my wish. Hopefully, we will have a full sukkah on October 20^th, when you are invited to come to our house/sukkah, make a b’racha on the sukkah, shake the lulav, hold the etrog, and enjoy a shmooze. There are a number of special days in our calendar including Hoshanah Rabba and Shmini Atzeret. We will be celebrating Sukkot and Simchat Torah at Kolot Mayim. Hoshanah Rabba is a particular favourite – come and join me at Hyacinth Park at 9 am, and we will circle and sing under the willow trees.

The following Friday is Simchat Torah. We need to sing and dance and celebrate our joy. One of my favourite holidays – I have so many wonderful memories of dancing with our Torah. Please come and join us. What a time of year this is – joy, gratitude, connection, inspiration. And always, hope. Doing hope. Every day.

Much love,
Rabbi Lynn

When I first spoke last October 10^th, I opened with ein milim – no words, there are no words. Of course, words followed, many words, then thousands more have followed since that evening.

This evening, I want to highlight just two words: Courage and Hope.

What does the concept of courage mean to us? I think of our ancestors who bravely set out on unknown journeys towards new beginnings. Goldie’s mother Hinda leaving her Russian home and travelling on a boat to Canada, alone at 13.  I think of Lindy’s father Lionel shooting down enemy planes during the ‘48 war. I think of the anusim, the conversos who trudged their way from Spain north, south, east in 1492. So much courage. Lech Lecha. In every generation.

Courage is one of our words. How do we speak up? What do we say? When do we act?  What can I do? Courage. The willingness to stand ground, speak up, not hide our faces, not hide our names. You don’t have to like me or agree with me – but you know who I am, unlike those imposters who rage against Jews, covering their face and hiding their name.

One of our challenges over this year has been watching the far too rapid isolation of Israel. We are in danger of Israel becoming a new Pale of Settlement. We must have the courage to not allow Israel to be made a new Pale, a new version of intellectual, creative, artistic, scientific isolation, confinement. We cannot allow academe to limit access for Israelis to publish in academic journals, or to meet with colleagues, we cannot allow artists and theatres, and feckless journalists force Israelis into this Pale.  Isolation is emerging far too pervasively, and Israel needs our collective courage. We must speak up, stand up.

And every day we are seeing more and more courage. Family members have woken up to the presence of hatred in their communities; they have found their courage. Everyone here is showing up tonight with courage.

And, as Sarah Mali taught us, we must do the work of hope. In every way we can, every day, we must do hope. Every day the creative chutzpah of our Israeli cousins are doing hope – be it developing pagers for Hezbollah customers or developing David’s Sling, holding weddings on the border of Lebanon or picking tomatoes in the south. Every day we too must do hope. With our words. With our actions. Courage. And Hope. Courage needs hope, and hope demands Courage.

G’mar Chatimah tova.

This is such an intense time of year, and this year we are also marking the first anniversary of October 7^th. I will see many of you at the Gorge Pavilion, where the commemoration is taking place on Monday evening. It is a heart-breaking time as we know 101 hostages are still deeply hidden in Gaza, in dank and dark, airless tunnels. It is also a time to honour the courage of so many Israelis. The hostages who are holding hope of freedom; the IDF soldiers who are seeking that freedom for the hostages; the soldiers in Gaza and Lebanon who are finding tunnels full of weapons; the brilliant minds who collaborated on building the weapons systems that are keeping Israel as safe as can be – the Iron Dome, David’s Sling and the Arrow systems.

It can be challenging to hold hope when so many seem to have turned against us, but we need to acknowledge and remember all those who stand with us – and there are many.

I look forward to seeing you for Kol Nidre and Yom Kippur. Come, meet our new and old members. Let’s stand together, in hope.

Shana tova, g’mar chatima tova, may you each be inscribed in the Book of Life,

Much love,
Rabbi Lynn

Shavua tov, dear friends,

5785 is virtually here. We pray that the year will be a year of greater peace and security throughout the mid-East and particularly for Israel. We pray for the health of our congregants and family members who are suffering in body and soul. And we pray for our capacity – each of us – to bring greater light and love into our worlds.

Our kehillah, Kolot Mayim, is a voice of connection for many. Last Shabbat as we sat together for a Shabbat meal we could all feel a lively energy in the room. New members meeting Hillel students meeting friends of members. May we continue to be a place of learning, of bringing voices in song together.

Shana tova, g’mar chatima tova, may you each be inscribed in the Book of Life,

Much love,
Rabbi Lynn

I am back home after being out of town all weekend. I had a truly inspiring weekend with the Beth Tikvah community, and their Chevra Kadisha members, and I was able to teach, answer questions, and demonstrate techniques with them.   We are all blessed to be in this Jewish world where denominations can work together for the greater good of us all.

A very special thank you to Marilyn Wolovick, Lis Louwrier, Neomi Summers and Morris Bleviss who covered from the bimah in my absence. Kol hakavod.

Yomtov is around the corner. Please come and join us over the course of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services. For many people Kol Nidre is the highlight of the year. The haunting melodies, the words, all clothes in tallitot at night, everything is new and everything is different at once.

But the whole cycle of these coming days from Selichot through Sukkot and Simchat Torah are highlights. Watch our calendar for days, times, and locations of all events.

Shana tova, g’mar chatima tova, may you be inscribed in the Book of Life,

Much love,
Rabbi Lynn

I will be across the pond in Richmond leading a workshop on Chevra Kadisha practices with the Conservative shul, Beth Tikvah, at the invitation of Rabbi Susie Tendler.

It is always my honour to be called upon to teach about this most precious of mitzvot. And it does mean I will not be at services. We have a most capable team at the helm, which is just as it should be. Thank you in advance to Marilyn, Lis, Neomi, Morris and April.

Ki Tavo encourages us to be glad, joyous, with all the goodness God has given us. These are such beautiful words to live by, even as we may encounter all manner of tribulations though our lifetimes.

Shavua tov, everyone. 

I am still filled with the sunshine that poured over us Sunday at the rally for Israel. People spoke with such insight and determination; that the light we were standing in would begin to fill the consciousness of those who would prefer to live in darkness.

Thank you especially to Shelley Evans, a Kolot Mayim member, who led off the speakers, and to Pat Johnson, who worked with Marilyn Wolovick to create Upstanders, a truly important resource in combatting anti Semitism.

I spoke with a number of people at the rally, and many were saying the same thing: you can’t build bridges with one hand. We are proud to be Jews and non-Jews standing up for and with Israel.More

Shavua tov, everyone,

This week we begin the month of Elul – Rosh Chodesh Elul begins Tuesday evening and through Wednesday, bringing us closer to Rosh Hashanah. This is also the week of Shoftim, Deena Vladar’s Bat Mitzvah portion. Not to give away her d’var, but this parasha is meant to be. I hope you can join us and celebrate the first of the coming Bar and Bat Mitzvah ceremonies at Kolot Mayim.

This has been a week of every emotion: gratitude at people stepping up; shared sadness; joy with a young couple getting married this coming Sunday. People we have been saying mishaberach blessings for have gone home, left hospital. I took several people off the list this Shabbat because they have died. Torah is so much about how to thread our way through the challenges life throws at us. I also had three people speak with me about workshops they wanted to develop for us this coming fall. We have a wealth of talent amongst us!

Elul is a time of deep reflection. Of teshuvah, of returning to the soul of our being. Return again, return again, return to the land of your soul…

Much love,

Rabbi Lynn

A week can bring so much joy and sadness, anticipated and surprises abound when living in a community such as ours.  Friday night we celebrated with Gilda Good – she and David have been married 51 years now!  Mazal tov.

This Shabbat, Karen and Doug Davidson will be called to Torah for their first time. It will be a Shabbat of great joy.More